God in the center of our relationships



For all you people who say “I love you” when you have no clue what exactly love is !!!

Something to ponder upon…


Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing
and is your voice caught within your chest?

-It isn’t love, it’s LIKE.

You can’t keep your eyes or hands off of
them, am I right??

-It isn’t love, it’s LUST.

Are you proud, and eager to show them off??

-It isn’t love, it’s LUCK.

Do you want them because you know they’re

-It isn’t love, it’s LONELINESS.

Are you there because it’s what everyone

-It isn’t love, it’S LOYALTY.

Are you there because they kissed you, or
held your hand??

-It isn’t love, it’s LOW CONFIDENCE.

Do you stay for their confessions of love,
because you don’t want to hurt them??

-It isn’t love, it’s PITY.

Do you belong to them because their sight
makes your heart skip a beat??

-It isn’t love, it’s INFATUATION.

Do you pardon their faults because you care
about them??

-It isn’t love, it’s FRIENDSHIP.

Do you tell them every day they are the only
one you think of??

-It isn’t love, it’s a LIE.

Are you willing to give all of your favorite
things for their sake??

-It isn’t love, it’s CHARITY.

Does your heart ache and break when they’re

-Then it’s LOVE.

Do you cry for their pain, even when they’re

-Then it’s LOVE.

Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch
your soul so deeply it hurts??

-Then it’s LOVE.

Do you stay because a blinding,
incomprehensible mix of pain and relation pulls
you close and holds you there??

-Then it’s LOVE.

Do you accept their faults because they’re a
part of who they are??

-Then it’s LOVE.

Are you attracted to others, but stay with them
faithfully without regret??

-Then it’s LOVE.

Would you give them your heart, your life, your

-Then it’s LOVE.

Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so,
why do we love? Why is it all we search for in life?
This pain, this agony? Why is it all we long for?
This torture, this powerful death of self? Why?
The answer is so simple cause it’s…LOVE.

Comments on: "It isn’t love if…" (7)

  1. What do I think about Love, Christian ….I hope you have a cuppa and bikies

    People have asked me … if God offers Hope.. .then why is it a 100% conviction in ‘Him’? …I ask them, if they have ever been passionate about something … I mean really passionate or have they known others who are ? besides me of course in response to my Awesome God. I mean someone really on fire for what they believe or cherish, perhaps Conservation, World Peace, Sport, Elvis, Grandchildren a Woman or Man in love… out comes the photos or brag book, eyes are bright, smiles exuberance, excitement, nothing is better and if it’s a loved one, they can do no wrong, perhaps they do but they don’t care they love them. They think about what or who they are passionate about most of the time, they talk about it or them, they defend them or it, they fight for them, they want to be with them or participate and be involved in what they hold as extremely important, they never weary of listening to them or hearing about it, there loyalty never wavers, they are 100% committed and they are absolutely in no way luke -warm.

    Why does God ask for this 100% of us in regard to Him ( see below ) is it because He is egotistical….Passion is one of the faces of True Love, God’s Love reflects it’s intensity but there is so much more…so why does God ask us to seek Him with all our heart, because we need to and in doing so we will find true contentment and fulfilment, we need to Love fully, we need to give all, any less will leave us wanting, we were Created to Love 100% and God’s Love is Sacrificial, Constant, Faithful, Committed, Loyal and never ending, it is not at all Saccharine sweet, that leaves a bitter after taste or is it watered down, cold or luke -warm. When we Love God 100% we will Love ourselves and others and be at Peace, but we can’t have God’s Love without God, because we ask Him for it and He gives it to us and then as we walk in it and it overflows and cleanses and heals us.

    Jeremiah 29:12-14 Then shall ye call upon me, and ye shall go and pray unto me, and I will hearken unto you. And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart. And I will be found of you, saith the LORD:

    Matthew 22 Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt Love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great Commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt Love thy Neighbour as thyself. On these two Commandments hang all the law and the prophets.

    Christian Love Anne.

  2. For me, the highest expression of love is sacrifice. Jesus dying in the cross, God the Father sacrificing His only son for the sins of mankind. In our earthly life, we experience the depth of our love to others by sacrifice. It is unconditional.

    • Why don’t you agree with what legallyblock said Christian? I’m interested in your view point.

      For me I have no doubt that fleshy love is not the same as Godly Love it is expressed in a different way and has no permanence in itself as the Scriptures confirm but what are your thoughts Christian ? do you believe they are the same or different. ?

      Christian Love Anne

    • I totally agree with you! really the highest expression of love is sacrifice. I think it’s present Agape love, which is unconditional. Thanks a lot for commenting!

  3. Then we all agree, I sometimes make Typo errors too but I see you fixed your mistake which is good.

    Christian we need to be carful what voices we listen to today as there is much deception in our world and sadly in the Church as was Prophesied that there would be, but I give thanks always for the Freedom we have in Christ Jesus the other part of the Gospel that has been lost but was known fully by the early Church as the Scriptures confirm.

    God bless you both greatly in your Ministry – Christian Love Anne

  4. amazing!!!

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